3/22/17 Chatterbox
Betty Kaiser
My husband and I recently attended a memorial service for James Freeman Hornick, a USN Retired Commander, our former neighbor and forever friend.
Sitting in the mortuary,
amongst his family and friends, I realized that Jim was one of those golden
Cottage Grove residents that I spoke of in my last column. This is his story.
Seaman Jim Hornick circa 1950 |
To all appearances, neighbor Jim was a good old boy just
like all the other guys. He wore jeans, tended his garden and told tall tales. But he
was so much more. He had a unique success story that began in the hills of West
Virginia where he was born in 1931. The cabin that he and his brothers grew up
in had neither electricity, indoor plumbing nor water. His family was truly
destitute.
The town of West Milford, WV, had a population of about 630.
Jim was one of 15 graduates from his school. (One of the student’s’ favorite
pranks involved tipping outhouses!) Post graduation, his future was uncertain.
The only certainty was that all young men between the ages of 18 and 26 were
required to register for Military Training and Service. I.e. the draft.
Jim may have been a hillbilly (his words) but he was smart
and he didn’t have many choices. Since the draft was imminent, he enlisted in
the Navy in 1950 at the age of 19. Why the Navy? His answer: “I didn’t want to roll around in the
mud with the Army. Bed sheets on board every night were much better.”
His Navy career began on the flight deck as a “white hat”
enlistee or “mustang” meaning that he started out as an enlistee but advanced
to an officer—30 years later he retired as a full Commander.
At the memorial, his wife Charlene shared how Jim’s life was
a lesson in how to attain success. He had minimal education but a great desire
to be more than he was. His life as a sailor was governed by goals, determination
and self-education. If he didn’t know how to do something he went to the
library and read up on it. That included books on etiquette and manners he
hadn’t been taught.
Simply knowing how to type opened the doors to
administrative positions. After that, the sky was the limit. He skipped the
rank of Chief and Ensign and started climbing the ladder: Warrant Officer, LJG, LT, LTC and finally,
a full Commander with the rank of CD-R (as high as he could go under his
designation).
The boy who had never left West Virginia quickly became a
world traveler. He sailed the world’s oceans including around the African Horn
in a harrowing, ship-rolling storm. He served in both the Korean and Vietnam
wars. His shore duties included coast-to-coast tours from California to
Florida.
His last duty station was at the Pentagon in Washington,
D.C. He supervised hundreds of office workers. How did he get along? With
respect. He said, “If you want respect you give respect.”
He met Charlene while serving in Calif. After a whirlwind
courtship they married in San Diego in 1973. Jim retired after 30 years of
service in 1980 and they moved to Cottage Grove Lake where he quietly set aside
the ever-changing military lifestyle, his medals, ribbons and other awards and
settled down into civilian life.
In retirement, this officer who bled red, white and blue,
loved to golf, fish and hunt. Occasionally we could get him to tell us a story
about cruising the world. He would always end it by saying, “Even a hillbilly
from West Virginia can do okay in the United States Navy.” In his last years he
valiantly fought Alzheimer’s disease. Sadly, he lost that battle January 21, 2017.
We will never forget you Jim. We are grateful to you and all
those who choose to serve in the military. You are role models for all
generations on how to live disciplined, honorable and patriotic lives. And
thank you Jim, for reminding us that anything is possible if you dream big and
work hard enough. Rest in peace.
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